Saturday, November 30, 2013

Quiet House

The house feels empty now without Evey and Eric. I just knew that was going to happen. 

Lunch at the Grille in Solivita

Waiting to be called for our tee time at Fantasia Gardens mini-golf

On the Fairways golf course

Mickey ice cream bar treats after golf.  Eric was the big winner!

Saying good bye at the airport
As far as I know, they are home safe and sound. I know they had a long and difficult flight.  I got some middle of the night texts from Evey saying there was a delay getting off the flight from BWI to LAX because there wasn't a gate ready for them.  Then there was a delay getting off the flight from LAX to SFO because the Jetway wouldn't operate to come out and hook up to the plane.  Both times they had to sit on the plane an extra 30-40 minutes before exiting.  She sounded tired and frustrated in the texts.  They can't even sleep in late this morning to recover because they have a contractor coming in at 9 a.m. to fix their shower.  Maybe they can take a nap after he leaves.  Eric leaves for China on Monday, so Evey will be lonely for two weeks.  She is not looking forward to it, but it's part of their life.

Mark and I had a lovely leftover Thanksgiving dinner for Shabbat last night.  I also finished the pumpkin pie.  I don't want anything here now to distract me from getting back on track. Yes, I've gained weight, but I'm sure I'm not alone after all that Thanksgiving food!  Today we are going to eat some of the Thanksgiving food for dinner again, but not a lot of it.  I think it should be okay.  Easing back in to normal!  LOL!

It's Shabbat Chanukkah, and we will be going to shul pretty soon.  There are some extra things to add for the holiday that only comes once a year.  Might as well go and enjoy.

This evening I'm supposed to sing three Chanukkah songs with the chimers at their big annual concert.  Unfortunately, I've been feeling a cold coming on.  My colds always hit my larynx, without fail.  I could feel it coming on last Wednesday night, which is one reason why I asked Evey to sing the songs with me.  I did okay that night because it hadn't really gotten too far along.  This morning things are not going so well.  I took a long, hot shower, trying to warm up and see what notes were in there.  As usual, I have some very high notes and some very low notes.  It's the ones in the middle that aren't working.  That must be where the swelling is right now.   That's unfortunate since I need those notes a lot for these three songs.  UGH!  Later in the day I'll try again to warm up and see what's working.  I am planning on asking, nay, BEGGING, Mark to go up and sing with me, or maybe by himself depending on how bad I sound later this afternoon.  We shall see.


Friday, November 29, 2013

Black Friday

I will not shop today.  I may not shop all weekend.  I am DONE all my Hanukkah shopping and most of my Christmas shopping.  What I have left to do will be done online.  I do not understand running out to stand in long lines in the cold and fight with other people over a "bargain."  What happened to being thankful for the things and people we already have in our lives?  We do not need more THINGS!  We need more time with our families. 

Today is also Black Friday for me because Evey and Eric fly back to California this evening.  They took a late flight, which is going to be very hard on them.  They fly out around 7:15 tonight, stop over in LA, and get into San Francisco around midnight Pacific time.  Then they will have an hour drive home.  That was a lovely gift to us by maximizing their time today with us.  It is very likely that they will not be back in Florida for two years.  I can hardly even believe that, but it's true.  Next year we all plan to go to Kip and Denise's new house in Snohomish, WA for Thanksgiving.  Who knows if I will even host Thanksgiving again the year after that?  Maybe we'll all go somewhere else.  I will see Evey and Eric next in July in Maryland for Lowell and Emily's wedding.  We also plan to go visit them in CA in January of 2015.  Seeing them only once or twice a year is hard, but we all made these choices about where to live.  There's no blame to go around.  I am thankful for every minute that I can be with them.  I am also thankful for cell phones, email, digital photos, text messages, and Facetime/Skype.  What a magical age we live in.

I hope everyone ate as well as we did yesterday.  LOL!  Of course, I am up a pound and a half since Wednesday morning.  I am not surprised or upset.  I have time now to undo that damage before the first of the two December cruises.  I'm actually up three pounds now since Wednesday before last.  It's okay. It was expected.  I certainly did enjoy all the food I consumed yesterday. This morning I'm going to have my traditional day-after-Thanksgiving breakfast, PUMPKIN PIE!  LOL!  Yeah, getting back on track might start tomorrow!

For Evey and Eric's last day, we are going over to WDW to play mini-golf.  It's going to be sunny and in the low 70s, a good day for golf.  We will have lunch out somewhere, pick up Mark's comic books (well, okay, he's going to go in and shop for those, but I'll wait in the car!), and eventually we will drop the kids off at the airport about 5 p.m.  I will be sad, but I will enjoy the HECK out of the rest of the day before then.

Happy Black Friday, everybody.  STAY HOME or do something fun with your family that does NOT involve shopping all day.  That's my advice.

Decorating the Hanukkah cookies Evey baked Wednesday night.


All done!

Thanksgiving dinner

Showing off his new decals.

My new flatware.

Star Trek and Disney!  Two of his favorite things.

Thursday, November 28, 2013

Happy Hanukkah and Happy Thanksgiving

This is the rarest of rare days.  The first day of Hanukkah is today and so is Thanksgiving.  It happened only once before, in 1888, and won't happen again for over 79 THOUSAND years.  I guess we had all better enjoy it while we can!  LOL!

Our day was fantastic yesterday and went off without a hitch.  We loved the new Disney film, Frozen, and I highly recommend it to everyone.  The music and visuals are all outstanding. It's certainly a worthy addition to the library of beautiful Disney animated films.

We had a small glitch when we drove to Rita's and found it was gone.  A second of disappointment and then we drove off to Private Island Ice Cream for a delicious dessert.  In the afternoon, Evey and I decorated the house with the few Hanukkah decorations we found.  We even found a few turkeys and pilgrims to hang up!  Mark finished wrapping the last of his things for us, so our dining room table was piled high with gifts.  I talked Evey into singing all six songs with me at Mosaics, which was a real treat for me.  Our family was asked to come up at the menorah and sing the blessings outside, too.  The evening there was delightful.

When we got home, Evey used a box (Curly Baker is always horrified by that!) to bake a dozen Hanukkah cookies. We will decorate them today.  We had our candles and presents.  A lovely evening!

I hope everyone has a fantastic holiday wherever you are.









Wednesday, November 27, 2013

Two great days with Evey and Eric

First things first.  It's Weigh-in Wednesday.  Earlier in the week I had dropped a little bit, but yesterday I was not behaving and there was less walking at Universal than Disney, so the result is a gain of a little under two pounds.  Last Wednesday I was 233.4 and this morning I am 235.1. That's a gain of 1.7 pounds for the week.  Bummer because if I could have reported YESTERDAY's weight, it would have a been a loss of a pound for the week.  What a difference a day makes.

Also, since my last blog, Mark's car broke down, AGAIN, on the way to the movie Sunday.  No movie for us.  Our neighbor, Ken, came and picked me up to get our other car.  AAA towed Mark's car.  This time it's some ball bearing somewhere that caused the brand new timing belt to stop working. Mark has had it.  The repair shop was very nice and are charging us only the price of the part, eating the labor charges just to make it run.  As soon as possible, he is trading it in.  Meanwhile, we rented a car for the next 15 days just in case my old car decided to drop dead during this busy season. AND...the new shower door came but had a broken hinge.  It's currently in the house, duct-taped together, and unusable.  A new hinge has to be made; no word on how or when the new one will get installed.

Meanwhile, we have had a wonderful time with Evey and Eric since we picked them up Sunday afternoon.  We did Magic Kingdom on Monday and Universal Studios on Tuesday.  Weather was supposed to be steady rain and thunderstorms all day yesterday, but the storms stayed a little north, giving us a perfect day at Universal.  Today we are having Evey's perfect day: Breakfast at Dunkin' Donuts, the new Disney animated feature Frozen, lunch at Q'doba's, afternoon snack at Rita's, my homemade macaroni and cheese for dinner, Hanukkah candles and presents tonight, a Solivita candle lighting at the Village Center followed by donuts and Hanukkah songs afterward in Mosaics (one of the restaurants in the Village). Great day for me, too, except that I have to lead the singing of six songs in Mosaics.  I'm getting a cold and worried my voice isn't going to be too great tonight.  Oh, well...it's a sing-a-long. I hope they DO!

Happy Hanukkah tonight if you are celebrating, and Happy Thanksgiving tomorrow to everybody!

Enjoy a few pictures from the last two days.
I bought a new Mickey hoodie and threw out my old one!

Riding the Jingle Cruise!  That's not a typo.  Jungle Cruise has been tweaked for the holiday.

In line for Small World

Heading over to ride Space Mountain

Sharing Le Fou's Brew at Gaston's Tavern in the new Fantasyland

Eric in front of Prince Eric's castle!

After the fireworks

Meeting up with some old friends at Universal Studios

Eric loves cows!  The Twister attraction has them.

Eric is a big fan of The Simpsons and Duff beer!

A Flaming Moe's and a Duff beer for lunch!

A Gigantic donut from Lard Lad's Donut Shop in Springfield.  Oh, yeah, we shared it.


Dinner at Lombard's.  Cheers!


Sunday, November 24, 2013

Evey and Eric arrive today! YAY!!

First, let me say that I stuck to my plan yesterday and dropped that fraction of a pound. It's Sunday morning, and I'm finally back to this past Wednesday's weigh-in number of 233.4.  That makes me very happy because the challenges for this week are just gearing up today!  LOL!

Breakfast today is my usual at home, but lunch is vegetarian chili at Pollo Campero at Downtown Disney.  We will go see the movie Last Vegas this morning, and then walk over for lunch like we have done so many Sundays since we moved here.  Then we will pick up Mark's weekly comic books on our way to the airport.  Their flight lands at 4:34.  We are all going to head up to Whole Foods for some last minute items for Thanksgiving and then have dinner at Citrus Garden, the local Chinese restaurant Mark and I tried last Thursday.  It was pretty decent, so I hope the kids like it.

Lunch at Pollo Campero and dinner at Citrus Garden is guaranteed to add some water retention weight tomorrow.  Oh, well...

I might not have time to write a blog for the next several days.  I usually write them in the morning while sipping coffee, before breakfast.  With the kids here and a busy schedule, I will more likely be talking to Evey while I sip that coffee!  LOL!

Our new shower door is going to get installed between 11 and noon tomorrow, so Evey and Eric will head out early to Magic Kingdom.  We haven't decided if one of us will go with the kids and one stay behind for the glass installation, or the kids will go alone to MK and Mark and I both wait for the glass company.  Either way, whoever stays home will catch up with everyone else later.  We are staying at the park through the fireworks tomorrow night.  Tuesday we are all spending all day at Universal Studios.  We will have lunch at Krusty Burger and dinner at Lombard's.  Mark and I have done both several times.  My calories will be high both days, but the amount of walking helps out with that.  Then I'll weigh in Wednesday morning and report the results.  Keep your fingers crossed!


Saturday, November 23, 2013

Shabbat

Last night's Shabbat dinner at the synagogue was delicious. The president and her husband actually cooked two whole turkeys to serve to everybody.  There was salad, rolls, turkey, stuffing, mashed carrots, and loads of desserts after the service.  Everything was served to you from the buffet, so portions were about the same for everyone.  I stuck to my plan and did NOT go back for seconds and did NOT go to the dessert table.  Unfortunately, the stuffing serving was kind of big and very delicious. It included craisins.  Also the carrots were saturated in sugar because there is not way mashed carrots could be that sweet.  They said "carrots" as they were serving me, or otherwise, I would have thought they were sweet potatoes!  The salad also had craisins and mandarin oranges in it, although not a lot of either one.  When I went home, I tried to estimate my calories. I had cut back a little on my original lunch plan, so I went to dinner with 850 calories available.  Apparently, that wasn't enough. My estimate came to 1,031, and that's just a rough estimate. It's hard to guess how big that stuffing portion was or how many calories were in those sweet carrots.  There were also potato pancakes, which are very difficult to guess.  If my estimate is even close, my day's calories came to 1681 over by 380.  I also never got to the exercise again because shopping and chores just took too long.  If I had been able to swim laps, I would have burned up most of that overage.

Today I was up about a half pound from Wednesday, so that's still pretty good.  Today all my calories will be consumed at home.  My day should not exceed the 1301 I am allowed may very well be a few hundred under that. If Mark has the energy later this afternoon, we will go to the gym for weight machines and take a 30 minute walk.  I have already spend an hour doing little things in the house, including a half hour of rearranging things and sweeping out the garage. I actually worked up quite a sweat doing that, so I must have burned off some calories already!

Tomorrow is the day Evey and Eric arrive.  YAY!!!  We are super excited about that.  Their plane lands around 4:30 tomorrow afternoon.  We will have them until Friday afternoon. 

I'm sure anyone who is a parent and reading this understands my feelings.  As a parent, I literally think about my kids 1 to 100 times a day!  I love them so much!  I'm pretty sure it doesn't work in reverse for them. When my mother was alive, she lived close by me and I talked to her almost every day and saw her several days a week.  I did think about her every day at least once.  My father lived out of state, and I have to admit I did not think about him every single day.  I know my kids are probably more like that because we are far from them. I call them every Sunday, whether they want me to or not.  Sometimes they are available to talk and pick up.  Many times I just leave a voice mail and that's it for the week.  Sometimes I send texts and emails and sometimes they answer, or don't.  Whether they reach out to me or not is not the point.  I will ALWAYS reach out to them and try to keep them in my life, whether they want me or not!!  


Friday, November 22, 2013

First of many this week

I have gotten through the first of my many challenges this week.   We had Greg and Joan here for dinner, which Mark prepared very well.  Dinner (spice-rubbed salmon with mango over brown rice, steamed broccoli, salad) had only 357 calories in it. Unfortunately I added too much Parmesan cheese to my salad, partly by accident, so that added another 230 calories.  Oops.  I had more wine than I planned at the party because I actually enjoyed one of the Cabernet brands and had two glasses of it after the tasting was over.  I didn't eat too many things at the party, but a little can still add up to a lot of calories.  The  total calories allowed for a day are now down to only 1301, according to Lose It!, but I had 1869 yesterday, over by 568 calories.  Worse was the sodium count.  Geez, I often forget to think about that.  I am up a pound and a half this morning, and I'm blaming it on the SIX THOUSAND mg of sodium.  That's over three days worth of sodium.  Ridiculous.

Today is the second challenge, the Thanksanukkah dinner out at the synagogue.  They are having a turkey dinner with latkes.  There will be salad and vegetables as well, challah, and dessert, too.  It's a buffet, which is usually not my best thing.  All I can do tonight is be sure to go through the line ONLY ONCE and watch out for the portion size.  Then I should be fine.  Breakfast and lunch are at home and planned.  I have two pieces of fruit planned for snacks, leaving 744 calories for dinner.  I am sure that I can get through that buffet line with no more than 744 calories on the plate.

Part of yesterday's problem was the busy schedule, so the exercise part got pushed aside.  Shopping took so long that we didn't even finish.  Then it was dark, gray, and rainy all day.  Not conducive to wanting to exercise.  We went to the gym, just a few minutes before the book talk, and Mark did one machine.  I got a cup of coffee and went into the lecture room instead! 

Today it's going to be sunny and 84.  We are going to go finish our shopping around 10 this morning and then hit the pool for a half hour of lap swimming.  That will give me a little leeway for tonight as well. 


Thursday, November 21, 2013

WE WON!!!!

On October 9, Mark and I went to the Magic Kingdom for a three hour scavenger hunt, sponsored by the new Solivita Disney Fan Club.  We were paired up with another couple and had 70 questions to answer throughout the park with three hour time limit.  What a blast! Last night we found out our team WON!  We got 69 out of 70 answers right!  No other team even came close.  Our prize was a cute Mickey candle and FORTY Disney dollars!  Of course, we have to share it with the other couple, but still Mark and I can use our twenty dollars for lunch at the park one day.  The other couple wasn't there last night to hear the good news, so Mark will call them today.  We'll deliver their cash prize, and give them the candle.  The club has some fantastic monthly activities at the parks planned, so they are already on our calendar!  THIS is a club Mark can really get into!

He also had his first read-through of the play Laughter on the 23rd Floor yesterday morning.  He is playing Ira Stone, a very funny character.  He was very excited and thinks he's going to have a lot of fun.  I'm excited for him.  I'm doing the props with one other guy.  When Mark showed me the script, I looked at the prop list in the back of the book and was horrified. There are FOUR pages of tiny print of the hundreds of props needed!  I'm going to have my work cut out for me to gather and organize those.  Geez!  Still, it will be fun.

Yesterday I ate exactly what I planned, 1300 calories, and I'm down another few tenths of a pound.  Now if I can only keep my hands off the snacks at the party tonight...  Unfortunately, I never did get to the gym or take a walk.  There was no exercise at all yesterday, but the low calories helped knock that fraction of a pound off.  I will be going grocery shopping with Mark today, so no exercise today either other than strolling through two stores. 

We also finished the novel The Lost Symbol by Dan Brown.  Today at 4 p.m. is the book talk about it.  The man who gives these talks is always interesting.  He used to be a college professor.  We also have guests coming to an early dinner who will join us later for the wine party.  Another great day is shaping up.  I hope everyone reading this blog has a wonderful day!


Wednesday, November 20, 2013

GREAT WEEK!

Down THREE POINT ONE pounds!!  I am beyond pleased.  Any week that includes a loss of 3.1 pounds is a great week.

This morning's weigh-in was 233.4!

Last week I had reported that I had stayed the same, so this 3.1 pounds is over a two week period. I'm still pleased.  There were so many eating challenges in the last two weeks.  This week will have MANY challenges, even more than in the past.  Here are this week's challenges:

Thursday:  wine tasting party, plenty of snacking ahead, plus the wine!
Monday:  lunch and dinner out at the Magic Kingdom with Evey and Eric (they arrive Sunday)
Tuesday: lunch and dinner out at Universal Studios with Evey and Eric

I did not do at all well at my last wine tasting party.  I made a plan, but it fell by the wayside once I arrived and started to nosh.  UGH.  This is my third party, and both of the previous two added a thousand or more unplanned calories.  So I will try again to keep my urges in check once the wine starts flowing.  Meals at the theme parks can be calorie-laden, but there is usually so much walking during the day that they work themselves out.  I expect those days to be high in calories, but not add weight due to the walking; however, they are also high in sodium, so I often have weight gain for a day or two afterwards just due to water retention. 

All along I have known that this week would be a tough one, full of BIG challenges.  I'm up for it. I am very pleased with this morning's weight, so if I put back a few pounds this week, I will still have three weeks to deal with it before the big anniversary cruise.  Each of those weeks has its own challenges.  Here's a preview of the following week's challenges:

next Wednesday: lunch out at Q'doba's, Evey's favorite Mexican fast food restaurant, and it's Hanukkah!  That means latkes and donuts.  We are going to a Solivita menorah lighting where there will be donuts afterwards.
next Thursday:  THANKSGIVING!  Need I say more? AND it's still Hanukkah!  8 days of latkes and donuts!  Wow!
a week from Sunday: Shalom Club Chanukkah Ball, dinner, drinking, and dancing!
a week from Tuesday: lunch and dinner out at Disney somewhere with more company

All along I have known that this week and the next would be a tough one, full of BIG challenges.  Not only are there many meals out of the house, but there is less time for exercise due to the busy schedule.  But, HEY, I'm up for it!  I am very pleased with this morning's weight, so if I put back a few pounds this week and the next, I will still have another two weeks to deal with it before the big anniversary cruise. 

Meanwhile, today is a going to be a good day, all meals at home, weights and walking.  A good day!



Tuesday, November 19, 2013

Line Dancing Tuesday

We haven't been to the line dancing class in two or three weeks.  I bet it's going to be HARD today!  LOL!  Mark and I have really been enjoying it, and yet neither of us can remember the songs or steps once we leave.  Do you think they are pumping amnesiac drugs through the air conditioning system?

I have spent three weeks practicing for the auditions last night, and still I blew a line in the first song I did.  Blah, blah...goes one of the lines.  Even though the music was in front of me, by the time I glanced down and found the line, the line was over!  Sheesh.  Then they ran way behind time, so I was there from 5-7 and they didn't get to the second song.  I had to sing another two hour rehearsal until 9, then sit through 9 guys singing one of their audition pieces and six other ladies singing my song before I got up there to sing.  By then I was tired, exhausted, and barely cared anymore.  The lady who came after me, the last one, did a fabulous job.  I am not holding out much hope that I am going to get either of these songs.  Oh, well....that's life in show business.  LOL!

On the positive side:
1.  I won three games at Mah Jongg yesterday, including the very first two that I played.
2.  I am down two pounds this morning, and today should be an awesome day calorie-wise. I expect to report that two pounds (or maybe even a smidge more?) tomorrow on the official day.
3.  Our friend Al got released from the hospital yesterday after his stem cell transplant.  WOW!!  That was about a week earlier than predicted. He has been a SUPERMAN through this entire year of cancer treatment.  The stem cell transplant went super well, too.

I am down to the final two little articles from Diabetic Living magazine.  One is super short, so I'm just going to do both of them today and finish this up.

Eating breakfast protects against obesity.

MAYBE!

"How long and how many times have you heard this one?  It has attained the status of absolute truth among the widely accepted principles of weight loss.  There's one problem.  There's no solid research to back it up. 'People have always heard that breakfast is the most important meal of the day,' Casazza says. 'We're not saying that it isn't. It may be for reasons other than being preventive against obesity.  What we are saying is that skipping breakfast doesn't make you any more or less likely to lose weight.'  What matters far more is how many calories you eat over the course of the day, not when you eat them. If you're not hungry in the morning, don't force something down. When you do get hungry, choose foods that support your weight loss goal."

This sounds logical to me.  I know many weight loss programs insist on breakfast.  Personally, I love breakfast and I'm usually hungry within an hour of waking up. I'm more than ready to eat something.  The rationale in most programs is that if you skip breakfast, you will overeat at lunch or have an inappropriate mid-morning snack because you are too hungry to be sensible.  That is probably true for lots of people.  On the other hand, I went a year in high school by skipping breakfast and lunch.  I only ate dinner and a bedtime snack and I lost weight.  I lost it very slowly, and I probably slowed my metabolism down for the rest of my life by living near starvation for so long. I would NOT recommend that to anyone, but when I was 17 in the 1960s, I didn't know any better.  Still, I totally agree that it is calories taken in over the course of the day that really counts.  If someone isn't hungry for breakfast and doesn't overeat at lunch, then it should make no difference whether they ate breakfast or not.  In fact, on my program now, if I skipped the meager 180 calories I eat at breakfast, I could add them into a bigger meal later in the day.  I have sometimes had a big "brunch," combining the breakfast and lunch calories, just because that made the day go smoother. 

Breast-feeding protects children against obesity.

FALSE!

"As if there aren't enough things to worry about with an infant, this tsk-tsking has been thrown on the pile for years.  But babies, who are breast-fed are no fatter or thinner as adults than those who aren't. 'This is one of the areas where we got a lot of pushback,' Casazza says. 'People just didn't want to hear this.'  But that doesn't change its lack of factual basis. Whether a new mother breast-feeds or not is a complex decision based on multiple factors--this shouldn't be one of them."

I agree completely.  I was not a breast-fed baby and neither was my sister.  I was fat.  She was thin.  It was apparent early in our lives that her eating habits and relationship with food were completely different from mine.  Both our parents were overweight as adults, but not as children or young adults.  I breast-fed both of my babies.  Neither is fat.  They are both active and healthy adults.  I really don't think breast-feeding has anything to do with adult weight, but it certainly is the healthiest thing to do for an infant for many other reasons. I am glad I was able to breast feed my children!

LOL!  I just remembered that breast feeding babies is supposed to help protect against future breast cancer.  NOT!  Guess that's an old myth as well.  

Monday, November 18, 2013

Just a quick blog

My day is going to be very busy today, so I'm not going to write a long blog. I have to get on to other chores.  I would like to say that I didn't really enjoy the Thor movie, but I LOVED the high school production of Tarzan.  It is just amazing how much talent there is out there in high school students.  We will definitely be checking out their musicals in the future.

This morning I have about three and a half hours to make a few phone calls, wrap some presents, get up to the gym for weights and a walk, practice two songs, and listen to some more of our audio book.  At noon, it's time for lunch because at 12:45 I am leaving to play Mah Jongg.  As soon as I get back from that, I have to eat an early dinner at 4 p.m. so I can be up to the Village at 5 for the final day of auditions for the Starliters solos.  That audition time will roll right into rehearsal time, getting me home about 9:30.  Crazy, long day!

Yesterday I started out having a great day, food-wise.  I stayed on my plan right up until the evening TV time.  Then I started to feel the old urge to graze and overeat.  I had planned to eat 3 cookies as a snack.  The cookies are small, but even so, they would add up to 150 calories.  Instead, I went back two more times to the cookie jar and ended up eating SIXTEEN cookies for a total of 660 calories.

You might wonder why I had cookies in a cookie jar anyway.  Well, they are left over from Friday night's dinner party.  And, no I don't have a cookie jar.  They are in a ziplok bag in the bread box!  Same thing.

My total calories for the day were 1825 instead of the 1315 originally planned.  These urges are terrible.  When they come, they are very, VERY hard to resist.  I'm sure anyone addicted to something, be it alcohol or drugs or anything else, can relate.  Alcoholics who get those urges are supposed to call a sponsor or go to a meeting. I guess drug addicts can do the same.  Foodaholics just have to learn to do something else. Weight Watchers used to talk about substituting a different activity or reward for food.  I should have tried to do that.  It's really hard to sit in the kitchen and watch TV when those urges hit because that has always been one of my biggest downfalls.  I should have gone into the bedroom to watch TV because the food isn't in that room. 

Okay, enough beating myself up.  Time to move on.  I have two days to be good until weigh-in, and I am still hoping it will be a loss for the week of at least one or two pounds.  I see no reason why I should slip up today or tomorrow. 

Sunday, November 17, 2013

Thor and Tarzan in the same day!

That's our day today!  First Thor, then Tarzan!

We will be heading out around 9:45 this morning to go to the AMC theaters at Downtown Disney to see the new Thor movie in 3D and ETX sound.  Then after eating a packed lunch in the car as we drive back to this area, we are going to see a live stage presentation of the Disney musical, Tarzan, at Liberty High School.  Liberty is in Poinciana, just down the street.  It's only about six or seven years old and looks beautiful on the outside.  We have heard they do great productions and have a magnificent theater.  We never got to see this show on Broadway, and it never seemed to go on tour.  We were stunned when we saw it on the school's marquee!  Now we will finally get to see it. 

Yesterday I increased my weigh on some of the machines, so it was hard. I woke up with a bit of a backache this morning, in fact.  We also walked on the treadmill because it was raining.  I walked nearly 40 minutes, but I only walked at my usual pace of 2.5 miles per hour.  This is considered "slow" in my phone app, but it always feels pretty fast to me.  My calories came in at 1358.  I am the same weight this morning as yesterday, so I hope three days of behaving will push another pound off by Wednesday morning.  I'd love to report a two pound loss for the week!

There are just three more little articles from the Diabetic Living magazine to report.  Here's a brief for today.

Meal replacements are not effective in the fight against obesity.

FALSE!!

"Meals in a box (or in a can) are effective ways to make weight loss simple.  Mail-order programs, such as Jenny Craig and NutriSystem, and meal-replacement products, such as Slim-Fast and Special K shakes, combine portion control with convenience to take the guesswork out of your next meal.  Research clearly shows people stick to their weight loss plan with greater ease and better results by using meal replacement and plans, Casazza says."

That may all be true, but I have done Slim Fast and other plans like that in the past.  I found them very difficult to stick to over the long haul.  I think they are best for people who...
a. don't have a lot to lose,
b. don't know much about nutrition,
c. don't want to be bothered to cook, shop, or plan appropriate meals,
d. all of the above!

Back in the 1960s, when I was in high school, I spent my entire senior year of high school eating only Metracal almost every day.  Both my parents were overweight and wanted to lose weight using those products.  So our whole family did it, even my sister who did not need to lose weight.  I ate virtually nothing for breakfast, maybe a little bit of canned fruit, skipped lunch every school day by going to the library to study, and ate two cans of Metracal at home, one can of soup for dinner and one can, frozen, as "ice cream," in the evening as a snack.  The cans of Metracal had 250 calories each, so if you followed their plan of four cans a day, you had 1,000 calories a day.  I spent most days of the week eating under 600 calories a day, a starvation diet. I am sure I didn't always follow this on weekends or when I went to a friend's house, but I did drop about 20 pounds that year eating like that.  I graduated high school at 165 pounds, the lowest I ever was in my life, ever again!  That summer, I gained 30 pounds in two weeks on a summer vacation in August with my family.  I had already regained 8 pounds, back up to 173, between June graduation and mid-August. I came back from that vacation on Labor Day Weekend weighing 203!  It was the first time (sadly, not the last time) that I went over 200.  Crazy!  I was stunned and shocked!  I immediately went back on a starvation diet as I started college and lost those about 20 pounds by Thanksgiving.  That was the end of dieting in college.  I graduated college at 245 pounds.  Geez, talk about the Freshman 15!!  I had that and MORE!

Most of what I have read about those meal replacement plans is that people do regain the weight quickly once they start eating normal meals.  Those plans do not help you learn how to eat appropriately for the rest of your life.  The same thing happened to me when I tried the Slim Fast program decades later. I lost some weight, sure, but I regained it when I stopped doing it.

What really worked for me several times was Weight Watchers.  Of course, I failed at it many more times than I did it successfully, but that is not uncommon.  Still, I learned a lot about writing things down, planning, portion control, and nutrition.  These are skills I still use today.  These are things I must do the rest of my life.

Saturday, November 16, 2013

Shalom Aleichem

About 25 minutes down the road is a small, unaffiliated synagogue called Shalom Aleichem.  They have services the first and third Friday nights of each month at 8 p.m. with a woman rabbi from Daytona.  Last night, we went there for the first time with our friends Jonathan and Susan.  As Mark said, "It exceeded expectations."  Wow!  We were there nearly two and a half hours and had a blast.  The whole Friday night service was basically accomplished, plus we sang all the theme songs from the various branches of the armed services, sang several other patriotic songs, listened to some lovely poems and readings by the many Veterans who attended the service, and talked to a lot of people we know from the Solivita Shalom Club who were there.  It was a lovely, surprising evening.

Meanwhile, the dinner Mark made was AWESOME, but I over ate. I had planned how much to have of each thing, but I didn't stick to it.  Notably, I over ate the challah, ate real margarine instead of the fake stuff, and had about three times as many cookies as planned.  On the plus side, I avoided the sweets table after services entirely.  My calories yesterday went from the 1340 that I had planned to about 2200.  To my credit, I did log them all into the phone app.

Surprisingly, I am actually down one pound today to 235.4.  Crazy!  Hey, I'm not complaining.

Because we went to services last night, we are staying home all day today.  I am relaxing, catching up on TV shows I missed last week, practicing some music for auditions Monday night, and generally having a truly restful Shabbat.  Eventually, we will go up to the gym for the weights and take about a 30 minute walk. It's sort of gray and drizzly outside today.  If it starts raining too hard, we will either walk on the treadmills or use the indoor track.  Because we are eating all of our meals at home today, it will be easy to stay at 1300 calories for today and burn some extra calories with exercise.  The next three days will be just like that, so I am anticipating a nice weight loss for this week. YAY!

I still have four more little true-false-maybe articles from Diabetic Living that I'd like to share, so here is one for today.

Diets work if they are sensible.

TRUE!

"Losing weight is simple: Reduce your energy intake.  That's it.  How you do it is up to you.
So how do you find out what works?  The same way you learn most things: trial and error.  And you have tons of nutritionally sound diet choices: South Beach, Weight Watchers, DASH, TLC, Ornish, Mediterranean, Mayo Clinic, and many others.  'It's not one-size-fits-all, and it never was,' says Gale Maleskey, RD, author of Nature's Medicines (Rodale Press, 1999), who runs a nutrition practice in Bethlehem, Pennsylvania. 'Everyone is different in how they gain weight and in what they need to do to lose it.'  Check with your health care provider or a registered dietition to make sure any diet you're considering is a healthuful one."

I certainly have always believed this to be true, so I'm glad to see it validated in this article.  I have always believed that it is truly just calories in-calories out that causes weight loss.  Obviously, taking in a healthy balance of nutritious calories is the sensible thing to do.  Yes, I'm doing this on my own, with the help of the Lose It! app on my phone. I try to choose healthy foods, low in sodium, carbs, fat, and calories.  It worked back in 2009 and it's working now. 

Is it easy?  ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!

Is it fun?  HECK NO!!!

Can I make this work and last the rest of my life?  I HOPE SO!!!
 

Friday, November 15, 2013

Good or Bad News?

Good news is Mark got a great part in the next show.  He is playing Ira Stone in Laughter on the 23rd Floor, a VERY funny character.

Bad news is I did not get a part.

Oh, wait...I actually thinks that's also good news!  LOL!!  No lines to learn!  No worries.  (Sshhh....don't let Mark hear you say that.  He's already worrying about learning lines.)

There were 8 men's parts for the play and 9 guys tried out.  I guess Mark could have been the one that didn't get a part.  We were actually surprised by who did and did not get a part.  There were only 2 women's parts and 6 women auditioned, so my odds weren't good to begin with!  I also put on the form that I'd help with props, ushering, or prompting, so hopefully, I can still be involved and help out somehow.  It should be a lot of fun.

Mark and I had a pretty good dinner at the Chinese restaurant at the Bellalago shopping center last night.  The place was attractive and clean inside.  We liked the tea pot, which was bigger and nicer than the usual little ones.  Our food was extremely inexpensive, so the portions were just right, not huge like so many places.  It was tasty, although not the best I've ever had by a long shot.  Still, we would go back again and take company with us.  The experiement was a success!

There is another restaurant about 10 minutes further up the road that we also want to try.  I'm not sure when we will get to it, but hopefully it will be by mid-December.  Then we will have choices!

Tonight we are having three people join us for Shabbat dinner and then going to the Reform temple in Kissimmee for services.  The couple is a member there, and since they came to SOJC with us once, we thought it only fair that we go to their service with them someday.  Tonight's the night.  The lady Rabbi there is leading a special Veteran's Day service with singing of patriotic and military songs.  I think that sounds like fun!

Mark is making a slow cooker pepper steak recipe, served over brown rice, with salad, challah, and wine.  We got three kinds of pareve cookies for dessert.  I have programmed my dinner down to the last cookie, and if I am very careful, I can make my calories today be right on target.  There will be no exercise, so that makes it tougher.  As I expected, I am up one pound today, probably from sodium at the restaurant.  I am hoping to drop that pound by tomorrow or Sunday.

Have a nice Shabbat, if you are reading this and are Jewish.  Otherwise, have a great weekend!

Thursday, November 14, 2013

National Diabetes Day

Yes, it is National Diabetes Day and November is National Diabetes Month.

Mark has been a Type 2 diabetic since March of 1976, so of course, we have lived with this disease and its effects for a long time.  We have known dozens of people living with Type 1 and Type 2 diabetes, and we have even lost a few friends and family members to this disease, including Mark's mother in 2004.

Today, in honor of Mark and all of these people living with this disease, I will wear the color blue.  I don't know how many people will understand that blue is the color for diabetes.  When I wear pink in October, I feel like the whole world understands that pink symbolizes breast cancer.  Even I never realized until this year that diabetes had a color.  Well, I know now, so today is a blue day!
 
Speaking of the color blue and its symbolism, blue also represents cold temperatures. I know that those of you reading this blog anywhere north of Florida will not consider my temperatures at all cold!  I felt cold enough last night to wear a long-sleeved flannel nightgown and put a bathrobe on when I got up this morning.  How cold is it?  Outside it is 52; inside it is 71.  Brrrr!!  LOL!   It's only going to a high of 72 today.  Yesterday, it was blustery and gray.  I wore sweat pants and a sweater, and outdoors, I added a hoodie.  It was the coldest day around here yet, but it looks like today will be the same.

I loved the new eye doctor at Wal Mart.  Mark had used her about 8 months ago, and he raved about her.  I was very happy with my eye appointment and the glasses I have ordered.  My vision insurance paid more than half of all of the bill, plus the bill was cheaper than Lens Crafters to begin with.  All in all, it was a successful experience.  My new glasses should be ready next week.

We had a productive planning meeting for the H.E.A.L. group.  Then we did our weights in the gym and took a thirty minute walk in the cold, blustery weather.  We had about an hour at home before going to the Democrat dinner meeting with a 90 minute performance by local singer, Martin Gallagher. I think this is the fifth time we had heard him sing, and we always enjoy it.  I ate a small salad with Feta cheese, a dinner roll without butter, grilled tilapia, mashed potatoes, and string beans for dinner.  Mark bought us both a Jameson's on the rocks, and I had three bites of a piece of cake for dessert.  I estimated the dinner's calories to be around 860 and the day's total at 1400.  That's a bit over the amount Lose It! gives me (1321), but the exercise compensated for it.  In fact, Mark and I danced quite a bit at the meeting, and I didn't even log those calories.  I had a great time last night! 

Better yet, I'm down a pound today.  I weighed 235.4 this morning!  That means the first of my four eating challenges for this week is over and I was successful. Yay!  Tonight we have the Chinese restaurant challenge.  There is always a lot of sodium in Chinese food, so I fully expect to be up in weight tomorrow morning.  That's okay.  I think it will come off easily the next day, BUT there might also be a lot of calories.  It's REALLY hard to estimate calories in a Chinese restaurant.  I have never been there, so I don't know what the menu is like.  I'm just going to do my best.

Finally, this morning at 10 Mark and I are going to an audition for the Solivita Theater Group's spring performance of Neil Simon's show, Laughter on the 23rd Floor.  It is mostly a male cast, so I know the director is hoping a lot of men turn out for the auditions.  She had auditions yesterday while we were at the eye doctor.  Later, at the dinner meeting, she actually called me on my cell phone to ask if Mark was going to come today to the auditions!  I think that speaks highly of his talent that she called, concerned that he had not shown up yesterday.




Wednesday, November 13, 2013

On a platuea but giving myself a pep talk anyway!

I stayed the same for the week.  The official weigh-in this morning is 236.5, exactly the same as last Wednesday.  In fact, I've basically stayed the same for a month.  On October 13, the day we drove to Miami for the cruise, I weighed 237.8, so I'm down 1.3 pounds in that month. That's too bad because I was hoping for around 8-10 pounds gone in this past month in order to start the holiday/cruising season in the 220s.  I fear re-gaining 10-20 pounds between now and January 5 when we return from the second cruise. 

I am trying to look on the bright side!  I have always been terrible at maintaining a weight, but this month, and especially this week, I did an excellent job of maintaining.  I had three big meals in special party or restaurant situations in which I gained, but then I did an excellent job of eating right the rest of the time so that I ended up the same.  I should enjoy that experience and be proud of myself.

OKAY, I really am happy about that.

Also, since I know I'm an emotional eater, I should be pleased with staying the same because it's been a VERY emotional week.  We had the show, which always gets one's adrenalin going, and we had the contractor in the house all last week and yesterday making a big MESS. The shower isn't going to be done by the time Evey and Eric arrive, so yesterday I just had to deal with that thought.  SO...I maintained my weight this week DESPITE the challenges.  Yay for me!

This week is also going to be very challenging.  I have dinner out tonight with the Democrat Club Meeting.  I have dinner out tomorrow night because we are trying to find a nice sit-down Chinese restaurant closer to home than our usual one in Orlando.  We have been given two, so we are trying the first one tonight.  Friday we are having company for dinner, so Mark is making a nice dinner. I can control that pretty good, but there is always challah, wine, and dessert with company on Friday.  Sunday we are eating lunch out after the movie, like we always do.  So that is four meals that will be a challenge.  So there is the potential that this week will also be a maintenance week.  Stay tuned for next Wednesday's report!

Meanwhile, here is the snippet from the magazine article for today.  I picked this one because it seemed to relate to my problems today.

Set realistic goals or you'll get frustrated, lose less, or give-up.

FALSE!!

"This is one weight loss belief that seems so reasonable it must be true.  But absolutely no evidence exists to show that losing weight must be a reasonable or realistic endeavor. Whether you have small step-by-step objectives or giant, wild dreams, the takeaway is clear.  Go for it.  'Individuality is key. What works for you is the thing that matters the most,'  Casazza says. 'As the weight loss commercials say, Results may vary.'" 

I have been going for the step-by-step objective plan.  It's slow, and a previous article said slow doesn't really matter.  Still, this one is saying what works for me is what I should do.  I think slow and steady with small objectives is what is going to work for me.  So I think I'll stick with my plan.

Tuesday, November 12, 2013

Lucky Day. It's 11/12/13!

This morning, as I prepared to write this blog, I heard Good Morning, America doing a story on today's date, November 12, 2013.  I hadn't even realized it!  Apparently, the dates of three consecutive numbers, like 11-12-13, are considered lucky.  I hope everyone is lucky today.  It's going to a very long time before it happens again.

Meanwhile, yesterday I ate under 1,000 calories, did my weights and took a 30 minute walk, and got up this morning at 237.5.  I'm still one pound over last week's weigh-in, but today might knock that one off.  If so, I'll have a week of no weight loss, but at least I'll be staying the same.  Geez!  It's hard to lose weight.  Hahahaha!!!  Like THAT'S news to anyone.

I think gaining and losing weight frequently might be a good topic to discuss today.  Here's the next statement from Diabetic Living.

Yo-Yo Dieting is bad and could lead to increased death rates.

FALSE!

"The claim is that letting your weight bounce up and down can lead to early mortality and that it's better to stay at a steady weight, even if that weight is too high.

'There are new studies showing that yo-yo dieting doesn't seem to have any adverse effects at all,' Thomas says. 'There is no catch-up fat or extra fat distribution at the abdomen.'

In fact, research from the Swedish Obesity Study Team showed that people whose weight yo-yoed most of all--those who had bariatric surgery--had no increased mortality associated with weight fluctuations."

I have always believed that yo-yo dieting is bad.  I guess this should be a relief that I have not jeopardized my long-term health by losing and gaining 80+ pounds multiple times in my life.  On the other hand, carrying them around most of my life hasn't exactly been healthy either!  I would really love to lose another 40 pounds, get back to an even 200, and then stay between 200-205 for the rest of my life.  I would still be considered obese in any doctor's office, but in my head I would be svelte!  LOL!

Meanwhile, the contractors never did show up yesterday.  Eventually, around 6 p.m., the secretary at their office called to say Carlos would come this morning between 9 and 10.  I certainly hope so!

Monday, November 11, 2013

It's Veteran's Day! Let's all thank them for their service to our country.

This morning, Solivita will be honoring all the veterans at Freedom Park. It will include presenting the colors of all branches of the military and having their theme songs performed by members of Guys and Dolls and Starliters. I have done it before, but this year I am not participating.  Although it's a wonderful thing, today we are waiting for Mr. Handy contractors to come back and finish their job.  I can't leave the house until they get here, so here I sit.  The ceremony begins in ten minutes, too late for me to get up there and participate now even if he showed up this very second.  Well, there's always Memorial Day!

Our final show was a lot of fun, and the cast party was amazing; however, I overate terribly at the party.  Even though I tried to plan for what I would eat, I still lose control in buffet/party situations.  I went back for seconds and thirds.  I had WAY too much dessert.  Later, at home, I tried to estimate the calories for the day and my best estimate is 2183 at the party and a total of 3368 for the day.  UGH.  So, of course, I am up another pound today to 239.5.

Well, I now have two days with all meals at home in order to try desperately to get back to 236.5 and report that I stayed the same for the week.  What is really depressing is to realize that for an entire month, I might not show any loss at all.  There have been so many challenges with the cruise, eating out, and parties, that I have gained and lost the same few pounds all month.  Sigh.  If I was trying to maintain my weight, I guess that would be great.  Unfortunately, I'm not at that stage yet.

Today my calories should come to 1139, but it will be pretty high in sodium.  Dinner, although reasonable in calories, includes low fat hot dogs and vegetarian chili in measured portions.  Still, the day will have about 3,000 mg of sodium, which is twice what I hope for each day.  I imagine it will be hard to let go of any water retention that may be occurring with that much sodium.  I'll see how it goes in the next two days.

Now for another short article from the Diabetic Living magazine. 

Eating more fruits and vegetables causes you to lose weight.

MAYBE.

"There are all kinds of health reasons to eat more produce.  But merely adding asparagus and apricots to your menu won't cause you to lose weight.  If you don't cut back on the less-healthful foods in your diet, you'll simply consume more calories overall."

That certainly makes sense.  It's still the overall calories eaten versus the calories burned that counts.  Of course, substituting healthier choices of fruits and vegetables for fatty, carb-laden foods IS the smart thing to do.  That's what Mark and I do.  We eat a lot of vegetables, not so much fruit.  Mark, especially, has to watch out for fruit.  Although it's healthy in terms of fiber and vitamins, it's usually so high in sugar content that he just can't metabolize it.  I eat two pieces of fruit most days, blueberries or peaches on my morning cereal and a banana at night.  Many times I might have a piece of fruit as a mid-afternoon snack.  I love a juicy peach any time of day!  We eat lots of vegetables, especially big green salads.  They fill me up with very little calories.  Mark gets his calories by adding several hundred calories of dressing on his salad. 

Still, knowing what's right and doing what's right are two entirely different things!  I'm still working on the difference, especially at parties! 

Sunday, November 10, 2013

Slow and Steady Wins the Race...not always.

Today we have our final performance.  It's always hard to believe something like this is about to end.  We have had a lot of fun.  After today's matinee, we will have a cast party pot luck supper at the home of the director.  I'm bringing the cheese, crackers, and grapes platter that I took to the costume try-on luncheon.  Mark is bringing his seven layer dip. I heard one man is bringing poached salmon!  I hope so because that would be a great dinner.  Most of my calories will be used at the dinner party, so I'm not too worried about the day. 

I seem to be on another plateau this week.  I dropped the two pounds last week and reported that on Wednesday.  Then I gained one by Thursday morning after eating out Wednesday at Epcot. I lost it on Friday, gained it on Saturday.  This morning, it's still with me, even though my calories were excellent yesterday and low sodium, only 1156 calories for the day yesterday. 

But I have not had any exercise in several days.  Yesterday I wrote about the exercise "myth."  I suspect that exercise isn't 100% necessary to weight loss, at least according to that article I quoted yesterday, but it certainly can speed it up!  If you don't eat back the calories you exercise off, it will make the weight come off a bit faster.  Lots of people probably do eat it back or feel that it's okay to reward themselves with a snack, as the article said, but if you don't DO that, then it MUST speed things up.  This week I have done no aerobic exercise, only weight lifting.  Today I won't be doing any exercise either...maybe tomorrow.

Today I'm going to quote another one of the little articles from the magazine.
Small Changes produce large, long-term weight loss.

FALSE!!

"Slow and steady wins the race.  Two pounds a week maximum.  Rapid weight loss is dangerous and leads to rapid regain.

Bunk, says Casazza. What matters most is that you simply lose weight.  And then keep it off for the long term.  Other than that, there's no secret formula for the best way to do it."

This is interesting!  I have always believed the two pound a week philosophy.  Then again, I've always gained it back, too.  Hm...  Twice I have asked two different doctors, one in Maryland and one in Florida, about bariatric surgery.  When I was over 300 pounds at 5 foot 3 inches, I thought I was a perfect candidate.  I was scared to do it, but at 320 pounds, I was almost scared NOT TO DO IT!  My Maryland doctor said she would support my decision if that's what I wanted.  I never did it, though.  My Florida doctor said not to do it.  Of course, I only weighed a high of 260ish in that office, although that's well within the guidelines for bariatric surgery for my height.  She used the slow and steady argument.  She said losing it rapidly from that kind of surgery wasn't good and would lead to gaining it back.  I believed her because I personally knew several people who had the surgery and then gained it back.  Maybe losing it quickly through that surgery would have allowed me to reach a normal weight and maintain it.  I'll never know.  I will say that I'm very glad I didn't do that surgery.  Being an emotional eater, a binge eater, and a grazer, I am convinced I would have been someone who would have gained the weight back anyway.

This magazine article is saying it doesn't matter how fast or slow the weight comes off, the important thing is to get it off.  Well, I'm sure that's true, but for myself, I think I'll stick to my goal of two pounds a week.  The good thing about doing it slowly is that it allows me a lot of time to change my eating habits and life style.  Ultimately, I think a complete lifestyle change and new relationship with food is the most important thing for my own long term success.


Saturday, November 9, 2013

Diabetic Living: Exercise is Essential for Losing Weight. NOT!!!

No, I am not a diabetic, although I am as surprised at this as my doctor!  She continues to do A1C tests every six months.  Both my parents were overweight a lot of their adult lives and became Type 2 diabetics around the time they turned 50.  I always thought that would happen to me, but here I am at age 63 with no signs of diabetes.  I even had a doctor once in Maryland who told me that if I hadn't become a diabetic by that time (about age 55 then) that I probably would never become one.  I don't know if he is right, or if other doctors would share that opinion, but so far he is correct.

Despite that good news about me, I have lived with a diabetic my entire married life.  Mark and I married in December of 1975.  Just four months later, I came home from work and found Mark throwing things at the dining room wall in anger and despair. He had just had a check up at work when he turned 25, and it said he was a Type 2 diabetic.  He was angry because he had grown up with a Type 1 diabetic mother, on insulin, often out of control and heading to the hospital ER.  He was scared and very angry with life in general on that day. 

Over the years, he has learned to control it and has avoided insulin all this time.  Along the way, we have both learned a lot about nutrition, metabolizing sugars and other carbs, and living with diabetes.  During that time, I gained and lost a LOT of weight several times, in and out of control over the years.  No matter what I might KNOW about good nutrition, healthy eating, and good habits, there have been decades when I did not PRACTICE any of that knowledge. I have lived in denial for a lot of my adult life, and despite that, I am STILL not a diabetic. 

Now Mark and I are in love with the magazine Diabetic Living.  It is our newest tool in our toolbox for eating healthy and controlling blood sugar and weight.  Although the magazine is written mostly for Type 2 diabetics who need to lose weight, Mark and I are both using it to our advantage.  He does not need to lose weight, but he does need to control his sugars to continue avoiding insulin injections.  I do need to lose weight, so I can use those tips to my advantage.  Although I don't need to count carbs and worry about metabolizing them, I do need to keep my calories low in order to lose more weight.  This magazine is perfect for both of us.

The current issue has several great articles in it.  I am going to take this blog and several future ones to share information from one of those articles.  The article is called "Weighing the Truth."  It points out common myths about weight loss and what is really fact.  I thought I knew most everything about weight loss and nutrition, but this article opened my eyes to some new ideas.  So today I'm going to share one of these statements. 

EXERCISE IS ESSENTIAL FOR LOSING WEIGHT.
I have always believed that.  Certainly, the show Biggest Loser perpetuates that idea.  People exercise all day long on that show and lose a lot of weight.  Every magazine I ever read about weight loss included an exercise program.  My own phone app includes a way to log in my daily exercise.

Well, here's what this article says about that!

FALSE!!  Are you as surprised as I was?   Here is the answer from the magazine:

"This study finding in particular got a lot of yoga pants and lab coats in a twist, Casazza, (Ph.D, RD, asst. professor in the Dept. of Nutrition Sciences at the University of Alabama) says.  The belief that exercise is an essential component of any successful weight loss plan is long held and deeply ingrained.  But there's a problem; it's not true. 'Going to the gym doesn't make you thin any more than sitting the library makes you a scholar,' she says.

Unless you commit to an Olympian-caliber training program, you simply can't burn enough calories to make up for even tiny lapses in dietary discipline.  For example: A 150 pound woman walking for 60 minutes at a moderate pace burns about 225 calories.  And a Snickers sounds mighty good after that walk.  Just one measly 20ounce bar adds back 250 calories--more than enough to undo that entire hour of exercise.

The only way you can reliably lose weight is by reducing the number of calories you eat.  But here's an important note: while it takes dietary changes to get the weight off, you'll find it extremely difficult to keep it off unless you increase your activity level.  That's because regular exercise does burn enough calories to offset the creeping rebound that bedevils most people who have lost weight.

Increasing exercise and activity is essential for other reasons, says Diana M Thomas, PhD, director of the Center for Quantitative Obesity Research at Montclair State University in New Jersey and one of the study's authors. 'Waist circumference consistently reduces in response to exercise,' she says, because your body is designed to dip into belly fat first in response to physical activity.

'If people are concerned with how they look, that lower waist circumference will improve your appearance and help you slip back into those jeans you love.'

But don't feel obliged to call it exercise.  That word too often conjures images of unpleasant grunting and sweating. Instead, call it activity--and all activity counts, including dancing in your flannel jammies. Keep it simple. Just move more whenever and however you can."

So in a way, the title of the article and the false answer is only partially true.  Moving is essential.  Increasing the activity level in any way possible is essential.  Keeping the calories low is essential.  I knew that!  I'm glad I live in Solivita because it makes moving and keeping active very easy.

Friday, November 8, 2013

Another Opening, Another Show

Our sold-out audience for the show last night was SPECTACULAR!!  They laughed and applauded at everything.  A good audience reaction brings the best out of the performers, too.  One performance down and three to go!  I only hope the next three audiences are half as good as last night's!

As I thought, I am down that pound I gained at the Food and Wine Festival.  It was definitely water retention from too much sodium in those foods.  I had one chocolate chip cookie at intermission last night.  I should not have had that because it put me to 1430 calories for the day, 109 over my limit.  I would have been under the limit except that I didn't log the cookie into my program.  Then when I got home from the show, I thought I still had 150 calories so I ate the Arctic Zero ice cream container.  Oh, well...I'm still down that extra pound anyway.

Today will be an excellent day for food.  I will definitely NOT snatch a cookie at intermission today.  We are having all meals at home, but it is Shabbat dinner tonight, which is always a little higher because there is wine and challah.  Tonight, because we have to get up to the show by 6 p.m., we are having kosher turkey TV dinners at 560 calories.  Still, my total calories for the day should be 1275.

The contractor just rang the doorbell.  He is going to put the grout in the shower today.  I hope they also install the new toilet, handicap grab bars, and lanai door handle. If they do, their job is almost done!  At that point, we will be waiting for the glass guy to come and measure for the custom fitted, frameless glass shower door.  Once they measure, it will take 10-14 days to manufacture and install.  Well, worth the wait, I'm sure!


Thursday, November 7, 2013

Opening Night!

The play The Trial of Ebenezer Scrooge opens tonight!  Hard to believe it's actually here.
Here are a few pictures of us getting ready backstage yesterday morning.
Me as Mrs. Cratchitt

Bob Cratchit

Sarah Wainwright, a philanthropist

The bailiff

Ghost of Christmas Past getting her make up

Jacob Marley

Ebenezer Scrooge

The ghost translator and Fan Fitzpatrick, Scrooge's sister


Yesterday we had a Three-Part day, participating in three of our favorite things.  All morning we had the next to last dress rehearsal of the play with an audience.  Three of our neighbors were in the audience because the show was sold out.  Anyone who couldn't get a ticket or couldn't come is always invited to see the last two dress rehearsals.  Then after coming home to change and have lunch, we headed out to Epcot for our third and final trip to the Food and Wine Festival. We ate at the Singapore, Africa, Cheese Board, Poland, and China kiosks.  Yummy!  Finally, we had a choir rehearsal at the synagogue.  Long but happy day.

The tile is all up in the shower, including the floor.  It looks very nice.  They are not coming today at all so the tile mortar can set.  They'll be back tomorrow to grout and hopefully install the new toilet, as well.  They also put the five new lights in the kitchen.  WOWWEEE WOW!  They are amazing.  It's like we've been living in the twilight and now it's daylight in there.  Shocking difference.

So off to the final dress rehearsal with an audience.  Then tonight it's opening night!  Yes, it's finally here.  I hope I can get some pictures to show you that were taken yesterday during the rehearsal.  I haven't seen any of them yet, but if I can get some of them, I will share them eventually.

BTW, I gained a pound and a half eating dinner out last night.  I think it's probably just sodium holding water, so I hope it's all gone by tomorrow.  I'll let you know.



Wednesday, November 6, 2013

Mr. Handy certainly is!

We had good news/bad news about the wet wallboard in the shower yesterday.  Turns out the other bathroom isn't leaking!  Yay, that's the good news.  The grout in the old shower was leaking basically forever, and the drain pipe in the shower floor was broken in two, apparently all done when the house was built.  The concrete in the shower was completely wet, even up under the floor tiles.  They ripped out the board they put up yesterday and then tore up about two more inches of concrete in the floor of the shower, re-poured the concrete, installed a new drain pipe, and put up new wall board.

Mark and I spent hours at Lowe's and Home Depot with Mr. Handy (Carlos), buying up all the tiles and grout we need.  The shower is going to look amazing.  When they left last night, the contrast tiles are in the niche and half the shower has the wall tiles up.  Gorgeous!  We also bought the new toilet and a new door handle for the screen door on the lanai.  Busy, productive day.

This morning they are returning at 8 a.m. because Mark and I have to head up to The Palms by 9 for our next to last rehearsal for The Trial of Ebenezer Scrooge.  It's hard to believe that tomorrow is already opening night.  Wow!

Now for the weigh-in report.  I weighed 236.5 this morning!  I'm pleased with that because it's a loss of 1.8 pounds for the week.  Things are going well.

This week has just one small challenge, and that is today because it will be our final trek over to the Food and Wine Festival.  This time it will be dinner before we head to the synagogue for a choir rehearsal tonight.  It's going to be a busy day since we have the dress rehearsal from 9 to noon, home for a quick lunch, up to the gym for weight lifting, off to the comic book store for two weeks worth of books, and then over to Epcot!  Busy days mean more calories burned and less time to sit around thinking about snacking.  This is the only meal that we will eat out all week, so I can only guess that this will be an excellent week to lose another two pounds.  That's a good thing because once Thanksgiving week comes it's going to get crazy with three sets of company and two cruises.  I'm a little concerned about what my weight will look like by January 5 when we get off that second cruise.  Well, I'll cross that bridge when I get to it.  If I have to lose the same weight again, then I will.  Hahaha!  It's not like I haven't done that before!